I ask you, Charinus: since that which you wish cannot happen, why not wish for something else which can?
Byrria: quaeso edepol, Charine, quoniam non potest id fieri quod vis, id velis quod possit.
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ΕΥΔΟΞΑ ΑΓΝΩΣΤΑ ΚΑΤΑΓΕΛΑΣΤΑ
If you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with?